« Est-ce que je jouis comme les autres ? ».
« Je pense que je n'ai jamais eu d'orgasme. Suis-je normale ? ».
« Je ne profite pas de mes relations sexuelles, car je m'inquiète tout le temps de mon corps. Comment changer ? ».
Désir, excitation, plaisir, douleur pendant les rapports, orgasme, fétichismes, fantasmes... Nous nous posons toutes des questions sur notre sexualité. Sexothérapeute internationalement reconnue, Emily Nagoski nous convie à un véritable voyage au coeur de notre sexualité et nous aide à comprendre pourquoi il ne peut y avoir de normes en matière de plaisir féminin. Les dernières recherches scientifiques ont en effet révélé qu'il existe des différences physiologiques, neurologiques et psychologiques bien plus grandes d'une femme à l'autre que d'un homme à l'autre.
De l'anatomie de nos organes génitaux aux mécanismes de réponse à l'excitation, de l'influence de nos émotions aux secrets de l'orgasme extatique, Emily Nagoski décrypte les fascinants processus à l'oeuvre dans le plaisir féminin et nous aide à mieux nous connaître pour mieux jouir !
Un guide décomplexant et libérateur, parce qu'en matière de sexe aussi, chaque femme est unique !
UNE MÉTHODE SCIENTIFIQUE POUR EN FINIR AVEC LE CERCLE INFERNAL DE L'ÉPUISEMENT.
Les femmes s'épuisent à essayer d'atteindre les objectifs que la société leur impose. Comment peut-on « aimer son corps » quand chaque couverture de magazine regorge d'injonctions diététiques pour devenir « la meilleure version de soi-même » ? Comment peut-on être encore plus engagée professionnellement quand on travaille déjà à 110 % sans reconnaissance ? Emily et Amelia Nagoski décryptent ce à quoi nous sommes confrontées dans les sociétés modernes et nous expliquent comment mettre fin au cycle biologique du stress ;
Comment gérer nos émotions et notre frustration ; pourquoi le repos, les relations humaines et la bienveillance envers notre petite voix intérieure sont les clés pour surmonter et prévenir l'épuisement.
This groundbreaking book explains why women experience burnout differently than men - and provides a simple, science-based plan to help women minimize stress, manage emotions and live a more joyful life.
The gap between what it's really like to be a woman and what people expect women to be is a primary cause of burnout, because we exhaust ourselves trying to close the space between the two. How can you 'love your body' when everything around you tells you you're inadequate? How do you 'lean in' at work when you're already giving 110% and aren't recognized for it? How can you live happily and healthily in a world that is constantly telling you you're too fat, too needy, too noisy and too selfish? Sisters Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., the bestselling author of Come as You Are, and Amelia Nagoski, DMA, are here to help end the cycle of overwhelm and exhaustion, and confront the obstacles that stand between women and well-being. With insights from the latest science, prescriptive advice, and helpful worksheets and exercises, Burnout reveals:
* what you can do to complete the biological stress cycle - and return your body to a state of relaxation.
* how to manage the 'monitor' in your brain that regulates the emotion of frustration.
* how the Bikini Industrial Complex makes it difficult for women to love their bodies - and how to fight back.
* why rest, human connection, and befriending your inner critic are key to recovering from and preventing burnout.
Eye-opening, compassionate and optimistic, Burnout will completely transform the way we think about and manage stress, empowering women to thrive under pressure and enjoy meaningful yet balanced lives. All women will find something transformative in these pages - and be empowered to create positive and lasting change.
This groundbreaking book explains why women experience burnout differently than men--and provides a simple, science-based plan to help women minimize stress, manage emotions, and live a more joyful life. Essential reading.-- Bustle NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY BOOKRIOT Burnout. Many women in America have experienced it. Whats expected of women and what its really like to be a woman in todays world are two very different things--and women exhaust themselves trying to close the gap between them. How can you love your body when every magazine cover has ten diet tips for becoming your best self? How do you lean in at work when youre already operating at 110 percent and arent recognized for it? How can you live happily and healthily in a sexist world that is constantly telling you youre too fat, too needy, too noisy, and too selfish? Sisters Emily Nagoski, PhD, and Amelia Nagoski, DMA, are here to help end the cycle of feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. Instead of asking us to ignore the very real obstacles and societal pressures that stand between women and well-being, they explain with compassion and optimism what were up against--and show us how to fight back. In these pages youll learn what you can do to complete the biological stress cycle--and return your body to a state of relaxation how to manage the monitor in your brain that regulates the emotion of frustration how the Bikini Industrial Complex makes it difficult for women to love their bodies--and how to defend yourself against it why rest, human connection, and befriending your inner critic are keys to recovering and preventing burnout With the help of eye-opening science, prescriptive advice, and helpful worksheets and exercises, all women will find something transformative in these pages--and will be empowered to create positive change. Emily and Amelia arent here to preach the broad platitudes of expensive self-care or insist that we strive for the impossible goal of having it all. Instead, they tell us that we are enough, just as we are--and that wellness, true wellness, is within our reach. Praise for Burnout Burnout is the gold standard of self-help books, delivering cutting-edge science with energy, empathy, and wit. The authors know exactly whats going on inside your frazzled brain and body, and exactly what you can do to fix it. . . . Truly life-changing. --Sarah Knight, New York Times bestselling author of Calm the F*ck Down